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This week in therapy⬇️

Daughter: I don’t want to say I love my sister when I don’t love her.

Parent: But I’m sure you love her *deep down.*

Me: It’s okay not to love your sibling... at all.

#thread 🧵

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9 Aug

How do you rebuild trust after your husband has been LYING to you?

Listen to today’s #DearTherapists podcast “Anna and Chris’ Marital Betrayal” episode ➡️ http://apple.co/3vQiMzH

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8 Aug

“You’re trying to make sense of another person’s behavior without having a better understanding of your own.”

My @theatlantic column: Why we choose unavailable partners and how to change that pattern.

Read the full column ⬇️ https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2020/01/im-having-affair-my-roommate/604747/

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"We need to prioritise our emotional health" 💕

Really enjoyed this conversation with therapist, author and podcaster @LoriGottlieb1 - so wise, insightful & compassionate. Please enjoy & share 🙏

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